Well, I've been in a relationship with my spouse for almost 10 years. We also have a small child together. Unfortunately, it just doesn't work between us. I am genuinely unhappy in this relationship and don't know what to do. We tried couples therapy and individual therapy (well, I'm in therapy and he said he'd do it, but he didn't). Most of the time I feel like I don't even compromise, I give up. I'm giving up a part of myself, and that's the worst part, most of my old friends don't recognize me anymore, and not in a good way. I realized that I became so bitter and so hopeless because I was walking on eggshells all the time, because I was afraid to speak or, God forbid, to argue.

I talked to him about it, we fought about it, we had therapy about it... It doesn't change and I think it can't really change.

I can not do it anymore.

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